What relief can I ask for on the application?
You may request the judge to order that the abuser:
- Stop or refrain from abusing you
- Have no contact with you or a child in your custody
- Vacate or move out of the house or apartment where you live

You may also request the judge to order that you receive support and temporary custody of your children, if the abuser has a legal duty to support or shares custody. You may request payment for medical costs incurred due to injuries caused by the abuser and related loss of wages. You may ask that the abuser not contact you at work or at a relative's home, and that your new address be kept confidential from the abuser for your safety.

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1. What is domestic violence?
2. What is the legal definition of abuse?
3. What is a 209A Restraining Order?
4. Where can I get a 209A order?
5. How can I get an order in district court?
6. What questions are asked on the form?
7. What relief can I ask for on the application?
8. What about child custody and visitation?
9. What happens after I have completed the 209A forms?
10. What will the judge do after speaking with you?
11. What is a ten day hearing?
12. What happens at the end of a year or the end of the effective date?
13. What should you do if you want to change the terms of the order?
14. Can a minor obtain a 209A order?
15. What happens if the order is violated?
16. What happens if an arrest is made?
17. What are some of the criminal charges that an abuser can be charged with?
18. What happens after an arrest?
19. What happens at the arraignment?
20. What happens after the arraignment?
21. What is a certified batterers intervention program?
22. Will the intervention stop the abuse?